Defining Moments

I read The Lover's Dictionary over a year ago. I finished it in one day, but I still think about different blips every now and again. I found so much to relate to in that short little book. I laughed, I cried (I think), I nodded. I nodded a lot. Anyway, these are two entries that come to mind pretty often these days.

akin, adj.

"...In the long view, did it matter that we shared this? Did it matter that we both drank coffee at night and both happened to go to Barcelona the summer after our senior year? In the long view, was it such a revelation that we were both ticklish and that we both liked dogs more than cats? Really, weren't these facts just placeholders until the long view could truly assert itself?

We were painting by numbers, starting with the greens. Because that happened to be our favorite color. And this, we figured, had to mean something."

scapegoat, n.

"I think our top two are:                                                                                             

          1. Not enough coffee.

          2. Too much coffee."